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After 20 years of fame and career covers famous TV host and wife Eva Herman finally the cards and gives in her book "The Eva Principle. For a new femininity "that women do not really want what is attributed to them, that is no equality and career, but exactly the opposite - a home, a family and a quiet life. After this confession of the famous careerist comes back to the question whether the paternalistic Patriarchismus was not yet the right model for our society.
For a woman who does not work, has a lot more time to her family and especially for their children. And this applies not only to small children who are dependent and can not do without adults, but also for young people who do not stay left to itself, thereby avoiding perhaps mistakes of others, who have grown up without that supervision. A mother has the time for their children, is certainly timely notice when their son or daughter starts to smoke or take drugs. In contrast, a woman who is tired after work to home and easy just needs some rest, less able to prevent the misconduct of their children.
also the home must not be forgotten here - plenty of time to cook, clean up, and the like has a working woman is certainly not. In such a family, it often pizza or on the way home and bought the finished product to dinner, which beileistet the health of the family members were not much.
A woman who has not worked, and naturally much more time for yourself - it has the opportunity to go to the gym or beauty salons, rest or simply to sleep times longer when she is tired. It can be beautiful and well kept, as a always rushing careerist with permanent dark circles and a tired smile, - and what woman wants to be admired not about her looks and her charisma.
Perhaps precisely because of the above, decide among them many women and Eva Herman but for their family and not for the career or work. On the other hand, there are also thousands of women who do the reverse do - they want to professionally create something that they want career and fame, or rather, they need this
Only if they work and earn money themselves, some women also in family life to be happy. You do not want to be pending from her husband, she do not every time they need money to go and ask him to. Financial independence makes a woman more independent and confident - this is a woman, thanks to their professional activity is not unconditionally bound to their partners and may divorce her husband even without facing danger of falling into the social void.
And of course the financial independence is not the only advantage that if a woman works - because these days not every man earned enough money so his family can live on it. Thus, occupation of the woman becoming a necessity, which can improve the living standards of this family.
a new car Buy, move into a bigger apartment or simply more time riding together on vacation - all these things improve relations within the family and are in turn also to the family fortune. Because although you can not buy happiness, think about the stable financial state it come a little closer.
Happiness is not just wealth, but also equality in society. Women and men are equal, and from the start to have a role model, in which plays the wife of wife and mother, and the male workers and careerists would be unfair, especially to children compared with that in the future would have no choice and just do it would have what they the company requires.
The fact that women who work do not be slowed in their development and compared to working women at a disadvantage, can not deny it. Housewives can not always go with my time and develop in accordance with their views fall short of the progress. The danger is that a woman too much on her family and does not focus more on themselves and on the development of their personality. This must not happen in our society.
my opinion, there can be no positive provision, which is for all the optimal solution. All people are different and their ways of life also. Everyone, whether man or woman must decide what he will do with his life. And it does not matter what others say if famous people, because what does this mean if you act according to Eva principle against his own will? What use is it to found a family that has been condemned in advance to failure, because look at the spouse's family life from different perspectives? Whether
housewife or careerist - one should stay true to themselves and to live according to a model - we would rather leave to others.
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